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Getting Married

Marriage merges two financial lives. A few honest conversations and a handful of paperwork updates now prevent years of friction later.

13 steps3 phases

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Pre-Wedding

3–6 months before

  • Couples who discuss money before marriage report far less conflict — align on values, goals, and spending styles.

  • Each partner's credit affects joint borrowing. Pull free reports and review for errors together.

  • Decide together how you'll tackle each other's balances.

  • Marriage usually means someone now depends on your income.

  • Check 401(k), IRA, and life insurance — these override your will.

  • There's no single right answer; pick the structure that fits how you both operate.

Post-Wedding

1–3 months after

  • Open joint accounts, transfer funds, and move autopays as you decided.

  • Target 3–6 months of combined expenses.

  • Input both incomes and all expenses to see your true monthly surplus.

  • Married-filing-jointly changes your withholding math.

First-Year Planning

3–12 months after

  • Written goals with dollar amounts get achieved more often.

  • Capture both employer matches first, then coordinate Roth vs traditional.

  • Block two hours each year to review spending, savings, insurance, and goals.

Did you knowCouples who discuss finances before marriage report meaningfully lower money-related conflict.
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