How do I choose the right person to be guardian of my children?

Choosing a guardian is the hardest decision for many parents, and there's no perfect candidate. Weigh who shares your values and parenting style, who has the stability and energy to raise your kids, and where they live, since a move could uproot the children. Consider the person's age, health, existing family, finances, and relationship with your children. Crucially, separate the guardian (who raises the kids) from the trustee (who manages the money); they don't have to be the same person, and sometimes shouldn't be. Always name a backup guardian in case your first choice can't serve. Talk to the people you're considering before naming them, since guardianship is a huge commitment they must willingly accept. Record your choice in your will.